You see, when we ask women to secure their financial liberty, itâs not an attack against the marriage institution or teaching you against your husband. Itâs a very wise thing to do!
The fact is, people change, whether they like to admit it or not, priorities change as some people grow in life, love interest and commitment can change and death can even come knocking unexpectedly!
What becomes of that woman who has built her life around a man? Where do you then start from? What happens to your children? Or you think the sole responsibility of those kids belong to your husband alone? No maâam! YOU ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE for those Childrenâs welfare, so no excuses, else you become a beggar for the rest of your life!
We need to really start changing these âvictimâ narratives we hear,
- I suffered with him, we used to sleep on the floor together, we used to drink Garri/cassava flakes together and now that heâs rich he abandoned me and left me with nothing!
My sister, when that money started coming in and your man started building, you should have started building yourself too. Secured your own source of income, chosen a career path, secured your BAG! In case the UNEXPECTED happens. THE VICTIM NARRATIVE doesnât do you any good sis. Youâre still sadly the loserð
So why not PRAY AND HOPE for the best while you PLAN for the worst? Youâre not hurting anyone by doing this!
Love can be blind to a lot of things but should never be blind to you building your finances as a woman!
LOVE WITH SENSE to avoid stories that touch!
May God guide us and HAPPY BLESSED NEW YEAR TO US ALL.