*Keep your marriage intact!*
If your *spouse* is used to pressing the toothpaste from the *middle* , press your own from the *bottom* , it will balance. This shouldn't cause *breakup* .
If your *spouse* is used to leaving the *toilet seat* up, close it or put it down, it shouldn't cause problem.
If your *spouse* *fart* while you're eating, carry your food and go elsewhere. This shouldn't cause *brouhaha* .
If *spouse* *snores* , so noisily you can't sleep, carry your pillow and go spend the night in the *guest room* , that should be after the show sha. And besides, *snoring is treatable.* It can also be controlled. All you need do is see a doctor. This shouldn't cause a *breakup* .
If your *spouse* has a *bad breath* , otherwise known as *mouth odour,* book an appointment with a *dentist* . It can be treated. Sometimes it is *negligence that causes bad breath.* Or a *bad oral hygiene* . Bad breath is treatable. It shouldn't cause *divorce.*
If your *spouse* has *body odour* , its treatable. He/she needs to be more hygienic. Invest in good body spray and roll on, (not anti perspirant) if it's a man, bath well and use perfume or deodorant. If it's a woman, it's only when going out that you can't use perfume. 'Bastadise your housewears with perfume. Increase your hygiene. Bath two or three times a day. Bath especially before bed time. Body *odour shouldn't cause wahala* . Something that has a cure is already solved.
If your *spouse* *cannot* *cook* or can't cook to your taste, enrol her in *culinary class.* If you can, you can teach her. Food/cooking shouldn't cause *breakup.*
If your *spouse* is *lazy or lethargic* with house *chores* , if you can, get modern gadgets to ease her task. Gone are the days when a woman's wifeliness is in her physical strength. Stress can easily wear a woman out and make her look twice her age.
If your *spouse* is *mannerless* , correct him/her with *love and patience* . It's hard to live with a *mannerless* person but marriage is not a *bed of Roses.*
If your *spouse* is *temperamental* , know him or her for whom s/he is. Don't *cross the line* . Be patient.
*Divorce* should be the last resort but nowadays new *couples* don't want to *tolerate* one another. They resort to *divorce at the first challenge.* A *woman* should buy a bag separately and stock it with *tolerance* *before marriage* . A man should also fill his heart with *tolerance before marriage.*
The *little things* that *causes divorce* nowadays is *ridiculous* . Most of those things can be controlled or managed. But shaytan keep having upper hand when *spouses get divorced* because of something as *trivial as pressing toothpaste* *from the* *middle or snoring.*
Sometimes, *age* is not a factor in marriage. *Maturity* and *intelligence* takes *upper credit.*
The news we hear nowadays is appalling. *May God save our marriages from falling apart like the wall of Jericho.*
Good Evening House.