1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to pull off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best resultsð
2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing
3. Don't take office work to bed/home
4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops, switch them off or put them on silent mode. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacredð
5. Move the baby to a separate room when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom, that is an exclusive island for two except otherwise
6. Men/women have that one spot that turn them up,so locate it and do justice to it.
7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters
8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up
9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with grudges or anger
10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desire to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory.
11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and mouth and talk intimate stuffs. Tell each other how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken? Discuss
12. Cuddle each other on bed until you fall asleep. It doesn't necessarily mean you must have sex
13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation.
14. In case one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)ðð
15. Cover your partner in case you wake up in the middle of the night and find he or she outside the duvet/ blanket
16. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare.
17. Give a goodnight and good morning kiss/peck.
18. Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up.
19. Take along the love you have for each other even when not in bed. It cautions one not to misbehave
20. Whatever problem you encounter out there during the day, do not bring it home, do not welcome your spouse with a frowned face or transfer of aggression.
May you not fail in marriage.