• Husband and Wife
  • THIS WIFE WAS ASKED IF HER HUSBAND MADE HER HAPPY; HER RESPONSE WAS UNEXPECTED What every wife needs to read, understand and live in her marriage if she wants to build her home. During a class at Fresno Pacific University, a speaker asked one of the spouses in the audience: "Does your husband make you happy?" At this moment, the husband stood up straighter, showing complete confidence. He knew his wife would say yes, because she had never complained about anything during their marriage. However, his wife answered the question with a resounding "No." "No, my husband does not make me happy." The husband was baffled, but his wife continued: "My husband never made me happy and does not make me happy. I am happy." "Whether I am happy or not is not dependent on him, but on me. I am the only person on whom my happiness depends. I choose to be happy in every situation and every moment of my life, for if my happiness depended on another person, thing or circumstance on the face of the Earth, I would be in serious trouble. Everything that exists in this life constantly changes: the human being, the riches, my body, the climate, my boss, the pleasures, the friends, and my physical and mental health. I could quote an endless list. I need to decide to be happy regardless of anything else that happens. Whether I own a lot or a little, I am happy! Whether I'm going out or staying home alone, ​​I'm happy! Whether I am rich or poor, I am happy! I am married but I was already happy when I was single. I'm happy for myself. Other things, people, moments or situations are experiences that might cause joy or sadness. When someone I love dies, I am a happy person in an inevitable moment of sadness. I learn from past experiences and I live those that are eternal like loving, forgiving, helping, understanding, accepting and consoling. There are people who say: Today I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money, because it is very hot, because it is very cold, because someone insulted me, because someone stopped loving me, because I don't know how to love myself, because my husband changed, because my children do not make me happy, because my friends do not make me happy, because my job is mediocre and so on. I love my life not because my life is easier than anyone else's, but because I have decided to be happy as an individual. I am responsible for my happiness. When I take this obligation from my husband and anyone else, I free them from the burden of carrying me on their shoulders. It makes everyone's life much lighter. And that's how I've had a successful marriage for so many years." Never give anyone else the responsibility to control your happiness. Be happy, even if it's hot, even if you're sick, even if you do not have money, even if you do not have child, even if someone has hurt you, even if someone does not love you and even if you do not value yourself. Just make sure you pursue ur happiness through a legitimate means and seek God guidance. *THAT GOES FOR WOMEN AND MEN OF ALL AGES.*
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  • 14 Aug '20 - 08:42am
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  • Comments (9)
  • topman on 14 Aug '20 - 09:25am
    thanks for the update
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  • bensonumeh on 14 Aug '20 - 10:29am
    this is really true, kudos to her, she's brilliant
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  • olaworeaa on 14 Aug '20 - 08:43am
    God, make our marriages full of blessings
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  • domnic202030 on 14 Aug '20 - 08:46am
    tanks for the information
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  • matthewsmith on 14 Aug '20 - 09:03am
    This life no balance ooooo
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  • ndavid on 14 Aug '20 - 09:23am
    thanks alot it is good to be self happy in marriage
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  • unegbuemeka12 on 14 Aug '20 - 10:10am
    thanks for the important information provided
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  • olaworeaa on 15 Aug '20 - 08:02am
    Home is very important
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  • bartholonew on 16 Aug '20 - 11:54pm
    Woawwwwwwww this is lovely
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