• SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN
  • SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN
    SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN. 1. Rejecting food when there's an issue: Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refused to eat because you dey vex. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on. 2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head: May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head. 3. Issuing threats: beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her"childish woman"part, play the"matured man. 4. Reporting your wife to friends and family: When your wife offends you, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. 5. Keeping malice: is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a"big boy"who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations. 6. Not helping with house chores: I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home. However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say"thank You"to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare cereal. Lastly, every man should have a church where his family is watered and raised spiritually. This makes you accountable, it's immaturity and dangerous to be a sheep without a shepherd. As you learn and grow in the right fold, you'll be able to take the lead as the head of the home. #Stay_Blessed #Stay_Safe_guys
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  • 11 Aug '20 - 05:45am
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  • justmike on 11 Aug '20 - 06:00am
    thanks for the information
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  • david1990 on 11 Aug '20 - 06:04am
    true i love this post
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  • ndavid on 11 Aug '20 - 06:08am
    yea is a true talk
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  • excellent14 on 11 Aug '20 - 06:11am
    nice one, thank you very much for this 🙏
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  • pillar on 11 Aug '20 - 05:47am
    it is indeed a sign of immaturity in some men.
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  • bolatito on 11 Aug '20 - 06:13am
    thanks for the update
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  • salihutunde on 11 Aug '20 - 06:16am
    that's true talk, pls change if u r among them
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  • powerpower on 11 Aug '20 - 06:23am
    Your post is nice!!! wait ooo. madam, if him reject food just go one side handle am...
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  • mentp on 11 Aug '20 - 06:33am
    thanks for the update
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  • ola1 on 11 Aug '20 - 06:40am
    wow i like this post
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  • makebe on 11 Aug '20 - 06:47am
    thanks for the information
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  • ogargoodness on 11 Aug '20 - 07:13am
    this is very correct mr. poster
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  • chapsyxta on 11 Aug '20 - 07:28am
    all true ...nice article
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  • mxg4lyf on 11 Aug '20 - 07:50am
    When a man is responsible, maturity will not elude him. Build your family with love, care and prayers. I love men who show maturity always
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  • idamag1 on 11 Aug '20 - 10:25am
    this is really a good food for thought
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  • david1211 on 11 Aug '20 - 06:58am
    this one is a very good message and I learnt from it
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  • chuksrobinson09 on 11 Aug '20 - 07:05am
    thanks for the information
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  • jacobprecious on 11 Aug '20 - 07:11am
    nice one, if they will hear
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  • rich1994 on 11 Aug '20 - 07:13am
    I like this post nice one
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  • mustaphavic1 on 11 Aug '20 - 07:14am
    naso thanks for the information
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